Where to Start
Most people find this work because something specific is not resolving. Find the one that sounds like you — the route is different in each case, and starting in the wrong place is the commonest reason people conclude it is not for them.
Different name, different face, and somewhere in the third month the same argument you have had twice before. Patterns in relationships are the most legible karma there is, because the other person keeps changing and the pattern does not.
A dread of water in someone who has never drowned. A response to abandonment out of all proportion to what happened. When the feeling is real and the history does not account for it, the history being looked at is usually too short.
Not "what goes around comes around". The actual mechanics — how a charge forms, what carries it, and why insight into a pattern so rarely dissolves it. This is the reading route, and it costs nothing to begin.
You have had the therapy, done the retreats, read the shelf. Something has genuinely shifted and something else has not moved at all. The unworked remainder is what the deepest material is for.
You have watched clients circle the same material for years and suspected the cause sits somewhere your training does not reach. Admission is selective and the training is long, for reasons the page explains.
That is common, and it is not a problem. Describe what is actually going on and you will get a straight answer about whether this work suits it — including when it does not.